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You can’t do that.

It was a phrase I’d become all too familiar with since I had moved to the United States.

I remember hearing it when my mom went to the bank to open a bank account. I remember hearing it when we tried to get an apartment. I even remember hearing it when I was in college and wanted to look for a job off-campus. And I definitely remember hearing it when I tried to enter a local casino with my friends on New Year’s Eve last year due to an expired ID card.

Like I said, it was a phrase that I’d become very familiar with…and had come to dread.

And there was only one reason that phrase had permeated my life – it was because I am an immigrant.

Every decision I made, and every step I took, had a domino effect. My legal status determined what I could and couldn’t do, where I could and couldn’t be, and how I could or couldn’t do something. Kind of depressing right?

BUT it didn’t determine who I could be, and when I realized that, I realized that I had to play the hell out of the cards I was holding to get where I wanted to be (thank Cheryl Strayed for the terminology).

 

Creating My Lane

I’ve been asked countless times why I chose to blog, pursue a business and build a blogger network. The truth is, I had no choice but to boss up and create my own lane.

Yes, I had limits based on immigration law to adhere to, including being forbidden from “engaging in business” while I was in school. However, I also had access to seasons of opportunity, like being able to establish a business and work for myself while on OPT, aka Optional Practical Training – a period of up to 12 months when an international student can be an entrepreneur provided the business you’re actively engaged in is a business related to your degree.

So, during those time periods (and that’s plural because I received 2 opportunities – one after my BA and another after my MBA), I focused only on my next right move. The result? I started this blog, established a fashion business and co-founded a blogger network for Caribbean gals with Nia of Creative Smart Girl.

They were baby steps towards my financial freedom goal but that didn’t matter. Baby steps still move you forward.

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This taught me to be my own cheerleader, which probably explains my recent obsession with my leather pom pom hat.

 

A Pom Pom Hat Outfit

Pom pom hats, or beanies, was one of the biggest trends in 2015. However, I think that it’ll never get old. It takes almost any outfit from 1 to 100, creating an effortless off-duty look. Plus who can resist the furry and fluffy faux fur at the top of the cap? It’s the perfect selfie accessory lol.

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Are you still here for the pom pom hat trend? Let me know in the comments below!

Tamara Sykes
Caribbean-Born Gal. Always Plottin' My Next Hairstyle. Encouraging women with a creative spirit to color outside the lines and live a life they love.
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